Have a read through VFAQ's or search for 2g dsm fuel pump rewire and this should give you a guide. Also look up fuel rewire in search
http://4gtuner.com/site/showthread.php?t=7&highlight=fuel+rewire
For the mounting location of the relay I chose under the drivers seat through the transverse seat mounting rail. Your fuel pump supply +ve wire is blue black and comes off the wiring loom and through the floor gromet under the seat. If you have any form of alarm on the car that cuts fuel supply then more than likely you are further reducing power to the pump (just for more info). However as Clutz says if nervous then a sparky should be able to do the job if you can point them in the direction of what you want achieved.
Also howc I noted you are in Perth. If you are keen to do it then let us know as can offer guiding hand if needed.