That bounce would be what is killing it imo.
Those wheels would be gripping, free spinning, gripping, free spinning while bouncing and that on/off shock to the shafts is what would cause the most damage.
I had some crappy blow GAB front struts on my vr4 once upon a time and I broke 3 front cv's because of the bounce (your would be rears obviously). I changed the suspension to hotibits all round and with more power, it has never broken.
Try and increase the height of your rear with some springs and see if that makes any difference.