For your miss... Gap your plugs down as previously stated & Change your spark plug leads to (not topgun), i went through 3 sets and one set only lasted 3 weeks, number one lead kept breaking down, changed brands and all sweet!
Agree your fuel pump (standard 1.8lt gsr one) wont be up to the task for increased boost, get a walbro in tank.
Point to note, the standard gsr Air Flow Meter will violently cut out 20psi at above 6000rpm (maxed out) from experience (have mods to suit) so I dont believe your AFM is the issue. But in saying that if your car CUTS OUT VIOLENTLY with a large cloud of black smoke out your exhaust as mentioned previously then its your AFM.. as this is what happened to me.. solution, upgrade to the EVO 1-3 range and computer and injectors
If your having boost stability issues I believe its because your are running a TD04L, it cant flow more than 12psi all the way to 6500rpm. Yes it will spike to 16-17 but pulls back at 5000rpm every time with the increased revs because your going "off map".
Check for leak in the hose to the waste gate actuator, AND..
Remove the vac line to the waste gate actuator and test for operation at pressure via a compressor and a pneumatic regulator set to 10psi then 15psi to check its opening, the diaphragm may have a pin hole in it also.. but it does sound like its not opening at all if its a 15psi actuator because its on a TDo4L (off compressor map)
Do not increase back pressure in your exhaust via a restriction... you want to lose power?
Get a split dump pipe for the TDo4L to 3" as I did, easy horsepower is made with a free flowing dump..